Is It Safe?

New relationships... such a blissful time but are you sure it's safe? Sometimes, we can jump into relationships without finding out if the person is mentally or emotionally available to love you like you deserve to be loved. We must stop getting all hung up on the outside and get a chance to learn what the person is carrying. Meaning, do they have any internal scars or baggage that will make them unavailable to you. Are they actually safe to love. That's a great question; a question that I never really asked myself before going into relationships. I vow now to always ask myself that question. Not just ask myself but also seek to find the answer before I go all the way :).