Change, Change, and please Change!

Hello Loves!

No matter how many times you beg and plead for change from another person, it's not going to happen. Unless they want to change themselves, they are going to remain (in some cases become worse) exactly how they were when you met them. Well, not exactly when you met them but when all the lust and impression stages are out the way and you uncover the real them. Ladies, please understand that we must learn to work on ourselves; we only have the power to make changes for ourselves. Please stop wasting your precious words of wisdom for people who aren't interested. I had to learn, the extremely hard way, that you can talk until your blue in the face and nothing will change for the better. I had to learn to search (deep search) for all the qualities that I was looking for from a person before I allowed myself to spend time with them. I no longer lend my time to anyone that's not worthy of it.