Believe it the First Time!

Fight the thought of, oh, he/she/they don't mean it.

Hello Loves!

Often times we believe what we want to believe; no matter what someone has told us. I learned, the hard way, that it is so much better to believe what someone has told me the very first time they tell me. Now, sometimes, we must listen closely and read between the lines when someone is talking. Not everyone is forward with their thoughts and feelings so some will beat around the bush on how they feel. For instance, you're dating a person (or getting to know someone) and you feel like he/she likes you for you, no hidden agendas but in all actuality, they are trying to gain something from you. Now, if they tell you upfront what their end game is and it's not what you're looking for, then please leave. Let it go. Remove the thought that you can "change their mind" save yourself from heartache and resentment.