Nope! I sure don't need him/her to make me feel better. I'm A-OK right by myself!

We should never think we need someone in our lives just to make us feel like we are OK. You are OK regardless of your dating/relationship status!

Hello Loves!

It is so important that we find love within ourselves; nobody can actually make you whole. It's all up to you to do that. Always know that your strength is enough and YOU are enough. Often times, we rush into relationships/situations that are no good for us just because we think we are "missing out" if we are single. I used to feel that way. I felt that if I had a mate, then my life would be easier. I would have someone to share my life with... someone that I can go to when I'm feeling down and need someone to confide in. I felt that if I had someone romantically in my life that I could turn to, then the world wouldn't seem so scary. Well, my friend, I soon learned that everything I need is already within me. God has already placed my strength, my courage, my wit, etc... within me to be just fine in this world. I got some news for you..... YOU have it too!! Yes! You have everything needed to make it in this world already embedded within you. You don't need anybody else to help you with it. Now if you are in a Healthy relationship then great! That's awesome! But if you are in a mess that is toxic and no good for you and you're only in it for the "status" then please understand that you don't need that. Take some time to get to know YOU as a person, look deep for wounds and then proceed. He/She is not needed just for Validation!