Questions!

Man! It can be soooo hard to be uncomfortable; to ask yourself uncomfortable questions and answer truthfully.

Hello Loves!!! Happy Friday!!

I was sitting back thinking about my life; wondering why it took me so long to "fix" my issues (not all but most lol Lord knows I'm still a work in progress) Like, why did it take me so long to realize that I am OK.... perfectly OK with being alone. Realizing that I don't have to be in a relationship to make me feel validated.

Well, I now know the reason was the fact that I wasn't asking myself uncomfortable questions. I wasn't challenging myself to be a better me. I think bc it was so much easier to mask my feelings and to just ignore things that I didn't particularity like about myself.... hence.... jumping into a relationship or dabbling into stuff just to keep myself from confronting myself. Whew!! I know that's a lot lol but that's how it was for me. Learning from my past, I have asked myself some extremely uncomfortable questions; questions that forced me to stare my issues and my life in the face and go at it. Questions that allowed me to unveil my problems so that I can begin working on them to make them better... hence.... making a better me!! :). I urge you to do the same my friend. If there is something going on in your life and you feel that it's time for a change, ask yourself the uncomfortable questions so that you can begin to deal with it (it may sting a bit at first) and then take your steps to get that problem/issue out of your life.