He/She beats me...

We fight but I know my babe loves me....

Heyyy! Happy Sunday!

It's one thing to get into a couple's spat but it's another when you're being beaten and battered..... That's when it's a problem.

Now, I know some people may say well Yolanda, it's not easy leaving because I love em' or I can't pay all the bills by myself..... my kids need him...... my kids need her......so many reasons to stay and Hope that it gets better. Personal experience.... it only gets Worst!

I was beaten for many years and it took every ounce of Strength in me to get out and start all over with two kids and an empty house. Oh yes, when I finally put him out, he took everything! including all the food in the fridge. He left my kids to starve!! Ain't that something.... but I am SOOOOO glad that joker is GONE! I am sooooo Much better without him!

You see, It was hard at first, learning to live with having to handle everything all by myself. But in the process, I became a much better me :). I went to school- Graduated! Became a medical coder, an author, a speaker, and a whole lot of stuff lol- well, being an author and a speaker and all that came much later but here I am lol. The point is, I learned to take care of myself and my children without help. With prayer and my strength, I figured it all out and guess what...you can too!

Nobody deserves to be beaten and battered! Nobody! if that is happening to you, it's time to go! Even if you have to be alone, it is so much better than having someone hurt you....physically and emotionally :)